Oral sex

we'll be going over some tips and tricks when it comes to some head time.

This one is going to be fairly short,and to the point, probably mostly what NOT to do and thing to not say. Now keep in mind I will always keep my gender terms neutral as they work for more than one party. Also pointers are to NEVER mention the fact that your previous partner used to like. "well my ex used to like that". don't be that asshole.

Vulva;

Find the clit and lick it, BOOM simple.  lol jk but seriously the clit is going to be super important when it comes to oral sex.  Beyond that you want to pay attention to all the erogenous areas of the body which are the thigh/inner and outer labia. Some people need an added benefit of a insertion as well as play with the clitoris. Aside from that , the best advice I can give is to communicate as every partner is going to be different.  Talk to your partner when it comes to what you do or do not like.  Best to focus on soft and delicate touches, as well as maybe trying to analingus when it comes to oral. These are all erotic areas that do tie in together. Also side note, Squirting is real, no it is not pee, and yes it is possible to do it. (this does not mean it's not as easily as attainable for some as it is others) It is mostly going to be stimulation or the Urethral sponge aka the Gspot. That is where all the fluid collects during engorgement as is realized from the urethra ( which yes it is a separate hole from the vagina 😐) 

Penis;

A lot of people tend to forget that the human genitals share all the same pieces if not functions.  For anyone with a penis you want to make sure you're focusing on the head of the penis. The head of the penis is virtually the same as a clit.  The testicles are also very sensitive as well as the taint.  Of course I'm often going to sound like a broken record but COMMUNICATION ya'll. Some people may like strong suction, some may not, it's up to you to clarify with them what they like. Thighs and butt are erogenous on a person with a penis as well. This is most important for Cis-hetero men, having your ass ate doesn't "make"  you gay. There is NOTHING in this world can make anyone gay so chill out with that. People with penises might enjoy prostate massage as well which should be done with great patience and a good amount of lube( not just spit). 

Aside from that, not much else is going when it comes to oral sex, this is something I could go on and on about for hours but I'm trying to keep these from not being all over the place. If there is anything more specific you want me to focus on, let me know.